Let's start this year off right. Taking control of your pleasure is crucial to having a satisfying sexual life. 

No more partners who don't care about your orgasms, no more boring lingerie, and no more self-doubt. Out with the old and in with the new. Here's 8 Sex-Positive New Year Resolutions you need to be doing.

1. Toys, Toys,Toys
   

Every lady should have at least 4 vibrators. I don't make the rules. That's just how it is. At least one should be charged up at all times. Another should be travel sized and one should be good ole reliable, guaranteed to make cum within 10 minutes flat. Don't forget to update your toy collection! If you haven't tried the Viral Rose Toy yet, honey what are you waiting on? Check out our review here. And take a look at the Rose Toy 2.0 that comes with a dildo that thrusts. 

Another habit that often overlooked? Cleaning your toys. All you need is some soap and warm water. I advise doing a little solo play in the tub and cleaning it afterwards

      2. Try Our a New Kink

Learn about different kinks through our website, online communities like Fetlife.com, and ethical porn sites. The best way to learn about what you like is to explore a few things until you hit that sweet spot (wink wink).

       3. More Solo Play

Solo Play has amazing benefits. Whether you're single or partnered, learn more about what turns you on through masturbation. Solo sex has a multitude of benefits.

It can help you become more sexually confident.

It could help increase noradrenaline, oxytocin and prolactin throughout the body, which may improve sleep and alleviate stress and anxiety.

It can ease menstrual cramps.

A 2017 study in The Journals of Gerontology shows that 73 people between the ages of 50 and 83 who participated more frequently in a range of sexual activities, including masturbation, scored higher in cognitive tests that measured memory and verbal fluency.

You avoid unwanted pregnancies, STIs, and don't have to ride!

       4. Turn Your Bedroom Into a Sexy Sexual Getaway

Candles, soft lamps, a sex swing, stripper pole, sex wedge, new Egyptian cotton sheets, and a tripod is a great start. You want to create an ambience that feels comfortable, clean, and sexy. Play with fabrics such as velvet, decorate with erotic art, and keep an oversized mirror next to your bed. 

       5. Practice Mindfulness

Practice staying in the moment. Close your eyes and use your senses to savor every single drop of pleasure you're currently experiencing. Try to decrease the negative self-talk society and past trauma has forced us to believe. Consistent meditation and therapy are great tools when learning to practice mindfulness. 

       6. Self-Advocate

Saying things like, "I love it when you____' or "Don't stop _______" when you're close to climaxing helps to center your pleasure and possibly increase your big Os.

      7. Explore Praise Kink

We crave assurance. We love to hear that we're sexy and that we're doing an amazing job. It turns us on to know that someone is turned on by us. it can also be used to share affirmations during intimacy. Check our blog on Praise Kink to learn a few phrases that you or your partner can use now. 

      8. Have More of It

Don't let low libido, menopause, stress, and/or relationship issues stop you from having the intimacy you deserve. Find the root cause and focus on a solution.

     9. Get Tested

In this COVID era, STI rats are increasing but the amount of people who are getting tested is lower than other years. Practice safe sex and get tested regularly. 

What are your Sex Positive New Year's Resolutions? Which ones from our list will you add to your list?