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How to Give Good Head & Make Him Addicted

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Be honest! Most of us dream of becoming sex goddesses that can bring a man to his knees.  Well, we've interviewed 50 men about their best sexual experiences and their answers may shock you. Here is what they said about how to give the best head. 


Giving good head boils down to 3 different things:

  • sex techniques
  • seduction
  • intimacy tools

Sex Techniques to Give Good Head

If you don't try else from this article, you have to do this one. The pepper grind movement will drive him crazy! Use lots of lube or oil to do the pepper grind movement while teasing his head with your tongue.  Using both hands is supreme but it's fine to use one hand if you need a break. This movement is a favorite because it involves the best of both worlds: head and handjobs.

  • Lots of spit
  • Alternate between fast and slow hand movements
  • Using no hands and only your mouth 
  • Using your breasts (motorboat) 

Seduce his Mind

Make him squirm a little. Read erotica together to build anticipation. Begin by kissing or licking the head and then slowly tease the shaft before heading down to his balls. 

Make sure to add some eye contact as you're going down. Moan and don't be afraid to gag. It does something to a man's ego to see you gagging on them.  Enthusiasm and confidence go a long way. 

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Sexual Tools that Help Give Better Sex

If you're new to giving head or have any sensory issues, try edible lube. It's fun, feels good, and tastes great. 

You can also try adding a cock ring that vibrates. It really enhances the experiences and frees up your hands to do play with his balls. 

Over 90% of the men we interviewed claimed that bringing toys into the bedroom increased their sexual experience. 

How to give good head? Creativity and a little experimenting. 

Be Free & Open 

The secret to giving good head is feeling comfortable and respected by the person you're giving head to. It's difficult to be free if you're afraid of being judged or laughed at. Having conversations beforehand to see each other's likes, dislikes, and boundaries is essential. 

The following recommendation that came up a few times is a bit taboo. But it's something that secretly turns a lot of people on. It's knocking the penis on your lips or face while giving head. If it's extra wet, that's a bonus. Yes, it may be putting on a show but doing it while maintaining eye contact can create a very sensual vibe. 

Always remember to stick to your boundaries so if this doesn't apply, let it fly. 

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Photo by Filipe de Azevedo

There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to please your partner.  For centuries ago, women have gathered together to share tips on enhancing their intimate lives.We were able to center our pleasure while also making room to 

The tips given here will hopefully allow you to build a strong foundation for your sexual repertoire.  

Sex is sacred. Feel free to take what works for you and leave what doesn't.  Connecting your mind, body, and spirit is key to true pleasure. 

Communication: Talk to your partner openly about their likes, dislikes, and any specific preferences they may have.

Pay Attention to Feedback: Pay attention to your partner's reactions and listen to any verbal cues they provide. This can help you understand what they enjoy.

Experiment with Techniques: Explore different techniques and find out what feels best for your partner. Every person is different, so what works for one may not work for another.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I give sloppy head?

Hydration is key. Secondly, when the penis hits the back of your throat, relax your jaw and allow your saliva to build.

How can I stop my jaw from hurting?

Try a new position. One where you open your throat to a comfortable level while letting him do all the work can be fun and less stressful.

What if I don't like giving head?

If you aren't comfortable giving head and don't wish to change that, stop giving head. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing. If you want to open up to giving head, try addressing past traumas, sexual shame, or sensory issues with a therapist. Communicate your issues with your partner, and be patient with yourself.

What is the most sensitive part of the penis?

The most sensitive part of the penis is underneath the head. Some enjoy licking or sucking sensations of that area while others find it too stimulating. Always ask.

How do I know if I'm doing it right?

Moans and pleasurable squirming can hint that you're doing it right but the best way to know is by asking your partner what they liked/disliked.

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